Last week, I discussed whether you should keep your exes stuff after a break up. This week, I want to talk disposal methods!
Some women are so angry and hurt after a break up that they feel compelled to get rid of their exes things in the most destructive way possible.
From tearing pictures and other things a part to burning things altogether, some women think that destroying their exes stuff will make them feel better.
But, the truth this, it’s just an unnecessary waste of your time.
Why Not Destroy His Stuff?
Going the destructive route often makes you much more emotional.
You have to remember that there’s no amount of ripping, tearing, or burning that will take away the hurt, pain, anger you feel from a break up.
Only in going through the natural course of the healing process will you truly feel better.
So, is it okay burn or destroy your exes things after a break up?
The answer is no.
What Should You Do With Your Exes Stuff?
I know you’re thinking, “do I just throw everything in the trash then?”
Well, yes, that is an option, but you do have better ones.
You could donate your exes stuff to the Salvation Army, Goodwill, or any other organizations that accept these kinds of donations.
Or, you could even return the stuff to your ex if you are both capable of amicably handling that encounter.
No matter how you chose to get rid of your exes things, don’t make it more difficult for yourself by putting negative energy into that process.
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Till Next Time,
If you wouldn’t put a brick through his window or smash his car up, you probably shouldn’t set fire to his best suit. If he chooses to press charges then that could make a messy break up even messier.
If he doesn’t want them, then by all means go ahead and do with them as you please.
The less messy a break up is, the better! Thanks for reading and commenting!