There’s nothing wrong with dating more than one guy at a time (7 Reasons Why You Should Date More Than One Guy At A Time), but the number of men you’re dating needs to be kept within reason. You definitely don’t need a roster! So, here are 10 signs you’re dating too many guys at one time:
1. You Forget A Guy’s Name.
If you’re on a date or talking on the phone with a guy and you can’t quickly remember his name, you’re dating too many guys at one time!
If you have to introduce your date to someone and you can’t remember his name, you’re dating too many guys at one time.
2. You Call Him The Wrong Name
If you’re mixing up names and calling a man by the wrong name, you’re dating too many guys at one time.
3. You Dial The Wrong Guy
If you call one guy you’re dating, but actually meant to call a different guy, you’re definitely dating too many guys at once.
4. You Have To Re-check Who You’re Calling
If you call one of the guys you’re dating and shortly after you dial his number you have to look at your phone screen to remember which one you’re calling, you’re dating too many guys at one time.
If you’re in the middle of a phone conversation and you have to look at the phone screen to remember which guy you’re talking to, you’re dating too many guys at one time.
5. You Mix Up Information
If you mix up the things you’ve learned about the guys you’re dating, that’s a problem. If you start telling a friend about one of the men you’re dating and you later realize that you actually told her details about the wrong guy, you’re dating too many people at one time.
6. You Can’t Recognize A Guy’s Voice
If you can’t recognize one of the guys you’re dating by his voice, you’re dating too many guys at one time. You should be able to answer your phone, hear a man’s voice, and know who you’re talking to. However, if you were never good at recognizing voices, this doesn’t apply to you.
7. You Have To Use Code Names
If you have to save every guy’s number with a code word or phrase to remember who he is, you’re dating too many guys at one time.
8. Restaurant/Bar Staff Knows Your Game
If you’re going on dates with different guys at the same places and the restaurant or bar staff knows your game, you’re dating too many guys at the same time.
9. Your Friends Can’t Keep Up
If your friends or family can’t remember a guy’s name, you’re dating too many guys at one time.
If your friends resort to creating quirky nicknames for the guys you’re dating because it’s easier to remember and keep up with, you’re dating too many guys at once.
10. You Have To Re-read Texts For Details
If you have to re-read your entire text conversations to recall facts about your date, you’re dating too many guys at one time.
It’s definitely great to get out there and date, but don’t date so many men at once that keeping up with it all becomes a full-time job.
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Till Next Time,
Dee
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