When talking about how to meet new men, I always think about this one story I heard growing up:
There’s this woman who REALLY wants a good man to come into her life!! So everyday she gets down on her knees and prays to God, “God, please bring a good man into my life!!”
But after months and years of praying she starts to feel like God DOESN’T want to answer her prayers. So she prays even harder, “God PLEASE bring a good man into my life, I’m a good person!! Why won’t you bring me a good man???”
And all of a sudden, God spoke to her and said, “How can I bring you a good man if you never leave your home???”
I don’t know why I always think of this story when the subject is how to meet men, but I do think the story makes a good point that, ultimately, you have to continue to put yourself out there.
Because once you give up on putting yourself out there, you’ve given up on that possibility of a good man coming into your life.
A great thing you could try to do to meet good men is to start volunteering. You’ll start to see that there are good men out there in this world.
Maybe you’ll find your next love while you’re getting sweaty building a house. And you might even snag a secret millionaire who loves to give back!!!
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Till Next Time,