The holidays are a really great time to cherish your loved ones and spend as much quality time with them as possible.
From parents to siblings and friends, the holidays are a time for the people you truly love. No one wants to spend their precious free holiday time with frenemies.
With that being said, if you’re currently in a relationship, this past holiday was certainly a great opportunity to bond and enjoy each other’s company.
Did Your Boyfriend Make Time For You This Holiday?
If you didn’t spend any time with your boyfriend this holiday and you’re not in a long distance relationship, it may be time to re-evaluate the quality and viability of your relationship.
Now, if you or your boyfriend had to work through the holiday, that’s definitely understandable.
But, if you’re in a committed relationship and your boyfriend has genuine feelings for you, he should have been making time to see you over the holiday.
Stop Accepting Excuses
Some men will have excuses for every time they let you down, but it’s up to you as the woman to be more discerning about the person you’re dating.
Remember, people always make time for what they really want.
And, if you’re not what your boyfriend really wants, maybe he’s not who you should really want either. Just some food for thought.
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Till Next Time,
Definitely good advice! I wish I’d known that last year when my BF ruined my NYE. This year, that same guy (now my ex) gave me some guidelines about renegotiating relationships that was similar to what you said. I wrote about it, too, if you’re interested: http://wp.me/p2hcsD-vm
Thanks Elizabeth!! And, I appreciate you sharing your post!