Often times, women are so eager to have a boyfriend or get married that they allow themselves to date the first man that comes along who is open to a relationship.
Unfortunately, many women fail to determine whether a man is a quality person, let alone the right man for them.
With their sights set on marriage and kids, some women will overlook the fact that a man lacks certain important qualities.
Date The Man You Actually Want!
What many women fail to realize is that who you date is ultimately who you marry.
If he acts a certain way when you’re dating, you best believe he’s going to act the exact same way if you get married too!
Neither you nor a marriage can change a man into something that he is not.
In fact, whatever he is now may be amplified over the years so make sure a man is actually right for you before jumping into a relationship with him.
Don’t Try To Change A Man
It’s very foolish to think you can change a man.
So, instead of dating any man that’s willing to call you his girlfriend, take the time to decipher whether a person is right for you and whether you’d be a good match.
If you feel the need to change a man, then you’re in the wrong relationship!
Save yourself the time and heartache and date the man who actually is who you want to date!
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Till Next Time,